If the student has told you they do not want to hear from DMHS but has provided information to you which leads you to believe they have a disability, please explain to them that this will limit the support and adjustments that the School can offer. If they continue to request no contact from DMHS, please proceed with completing the DRF but indicate this request and no contact will be made with the student. Below is a form of words that you may find helpful in these circumstances:
You have shared information with me that indicates we may have a legal duty to offer you support, so I must report this to DMHS, but as you have said that at this point you don’t want any contact from them, they will record this on their systems but not make contact with you. If you change your mind, you can contact them at any time. Please remember, if you do not want to speak to DMHS this may limit the support and adjustments the School can provide for you. If you would like to find out more about DMHS and the support you could access, please see their webpages here Disability and Mental Health Service